Using Checkboxes In Datatables?

I have a datatable with a yes/no checkbox in it and when I filter my datasource it loads form2. Right now I'm using this code to have a label's color as green if it's checked and red if it isn't:

Private Sub Customers2BindingSource_CurrentChanged(sender As Object, e As System.EventArgs) Handles Customers2BindingSource.CurrentChanged
If ActiveCheckBox.Checked = True Then
Label1.Text = "Active"

[code].....

That works when I do something like bindingsource.movenext because it's in the bindingsource_currentchanged event, but when I try adding that to the form_load it's automatically set to Inactive, color red. I figured it's because is set to checked = false, but what event do I use to make this work when the form loads?

What's the value of a checked checkbox for the update/delete/insert commands? Like dates are DateDateTimePicker.Value.Date. Is it something like this?

.AddWithValue("@Active", ActiveCheckBox.Checked)

I don't use checkboxes to often.