Combo Box Read Write MySQL?

for starters not sure if this is the right place for the post considering that it includes MySQL and VB, its here.I'm trying to load data from one table into a combo box as the data you can select, this i have been able to do "tbl_Wind" using "WindDirID" and "WindDir"

also, I am trying to select (if it exists) a value from "tbl_date" "WindDirID" to select a value from the existing data in the combo box loaded from "tbl_wind"and finally, I want to be able to change the value in the "tbl_Date" depending on if a value is selected in the combo box.when a new record is created in tbl_date it uses default values, so there is always something in the field.below is about how far i got, and its the only part that works (extracted and edited of course to exclude the other queries)

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